Couples Therapy
- Are you thinking about divorce?
- Have you or your partner had an affair?
- Are you miserable?
- Is there yelling or name calling?
- Is your sex life non-existent?
- Do you get defensive?
- Does your partner withdraw and not talk to you?
- Do you say mean things that don't make you feel good?
- Do you hear yourself or your partner saying the following phrases:
- "He never hears what I tell him."
- "He doesn't communicate."
- "She's always complaining."
- "She is never satisfied. It's never enough."
- "He doesn't respect me"
- "He never does anything around the house."
- "She is so consumed with work, there's no time for me."
Men have inquired if San Diego Therapy offers "she thinks I will never change marriage counseling."
If these questions, thoughts or phrases sound familiar, your relationship might need some adjustment. Many couples think these problems will go away over time. They don't. In fact, research shows they get worse.
There are two types of couples therapy:
- Couples Counseling to avoid divorce
- Marriage Counseling for people seeking divorce
I can help you repair your relationship and bring back intimacy, facilitate closure or help you decide what to do. See my section on Sex Therapy.
San Diego Therapy
Lily Kotila
Email: Email Lily
Phone 619 218-5363
Address: 1419 University Ave.
Suite C